Common Types of Funeral Services
Here we provide a brief overview of some of the most common funeral services.
Types of Funeral Services
Funerals play an integral role in our lives, helping us to gain closure after the loss of a loved one, commemorate and honour the deceased, and come together for support. While all cultures have ceremonies for the passing of a loved one, they each differ in their rites and rituals, just as they do from individual to individual.
When planning a funeral, understanding the various elements and options available can help you create a meaningful and personalised service.
Viewing
A viewing, also known as a visitation, provides an opportunity for friends and family to see their loved one for the last time and say their final goodbyes. This can be a very personal and emotional time, offering a chance to reflect and find closure. The viewing can be a private moment for immediate family or an open time for all friends and family to pay their respects.
Whether or not you have a viewing is entirely up to you. Speak with your funeral planner if you are unsure for any reason at all and they will help guide you in your decision making process.
Bathing or Dressing Your Loved One
For some families, the act of bathing or dressing their loved one is a deeply meaningful ritual. It can be a time of intimate reflection and a final act of care, allowing family members to express their love and respect in a tangible way. This process is often guided by cultural or religious practices and can be a very personal part of the mourning process.
Church Funeral Service
A traditional funeral service in a church is a common choice for those who have a religious faith. This type of service typically includes prayers, hymns, and a eulogy, all set within the comforting and familiar surroundings of a place of worship. It can provide a sense of spiritual solace and community support, with the service often led by a minister or priest.
Chapel Funeral Service
A chapel service offers a similar structure to a church service but in a more neutral, often non-denominational setting. This can be a suitable option for families who may have diverse religious beliefs or prefer a more flexible format. Chapel services can be personalised with music, readings, and tributes that reflect the life and personality of the deceased.
Attended Cremation
An attended cremation allows family and friends to be present during the cremation process. This can be a brief, informal gathering or a more structured ceremony, providing a moment of finality and closure. Some families choose to have a short service or say a few words before the cremation takes place, making it a meaningful part of the farewell process.
Attended Burial
An attended burial involves a graveside service where family and friends gather to witness the final interment of their loved one. This can be a very poignant moment, often including prayers, readings, and the opportunity for attendees to place flowers or mementos on the grave. The act of laying a loved one to rest in a chosen resting place can be a significant part of the grieving process.
Private or Unattended Service
A private or unattended service is a more intimate option, typically involving only close family members. This type of service may be chosen for personal reasons, such as the deceased’s wishes for privacy or the family’s desire for a quiet, reflective farewell. It allows for a very personal and controlled environment where grief can be expressed openly.
Holding a Memorial
A memorial service is held separately from the burial or cremation and can occur days, weeks, or even months after the passing. This type of service is an opportunity to gather in a less formal setting, often with a focus on celebrating the life and legacy of the deceased. It can include stories, music, and shared memories, creating a supportive environment for remembering and honouring your loved one.
Something entirely different
Sometimes, families choose to celebrate their loved one’s life in unique and personal ways that reflect their character and interests. This could be anything from a beachside gathering, a favourite hike, or a community event. The possibilities are endless and can be tailored to ensure the service is as special and individual as the person being remembered.
At Tobin Brothers, we encourage families to be creative in how they celebrate the life of their loved one, and welcome ideas for unique funeral services.
Final Thoughts
Our Funeral Planners arrange all the elements with you ahead of time, handing over to our experienced Funeral Conductors who will look after you on the day. Our conductor’s primary focus is to ensure the service runs smoothly and that the day is as comfortable for you and your family as possible.
If the service is being webcast, those viewing can access the live-stream through the Tribute Page created for your loved one. The link will have been provided to you following the arrangement.
It is important that the person whose life we are celebrating is honoured with respect and authenticity, which is why Tobin Brothers specialises in providing a service tailored to the needs and preferences of your family.
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