Christmas Remembrance Services 2015
Christmas Remembrance Services 2015
Christmas Remembrance Services
Those who attend our Christmas Remembrance Services are doing so because during the past twelve months they have lost someone very dear to them, and like so many others, have discovered what an intensely lonely and isolating experience grief can be.
The grieving process has been described by some as an emotional roller coaster – full of ups and downs, highs and lows. There are some days when you feel you’re beginning to come to terms with your loss, and there are others when the pain is just as intense and overwhelming as it was on the day of the funeral.
But however difficult the road has been thus far, we hope that people attending these services can try to draw a little comfort from the knowledge that the person sitting next to them is also grieving the loss of a loved one, and like you, may be wondering how they will cope this Christmas without the person they grieve for.
Lighting of Candles
Lighting candles in memory of a lost loved one is a centuries-old practice. It’s a moment that allows us time to reflect upon the memory of a loved one, and sometimes to pray or meditate on our relationship with that person.
And so, as part of our Christmas service in 2015, attendees were invited to come forward, and light a candle for the person who has passed, and then attach a ‘message of love’, to the Christmas tree.
The flames of the candles burn in memory of loved ones who can never be forgotten – because they have given you so much to remember.
You'll Never Walk Alone
We have called this years service ‘You’ll Never Walk Alone’ because although your hurt and sense of loss may at times be overwhelming, we want you to know that you are not alone – that out there in your communities, are trained professionals who will take the time to listen and really hear what you are saying about how you’re coping with your loss.
Many of the people of whom we speak, have also lost loved ones; some very suddenly, many others after a long and protracted illness – and that’s part of the reason why these people are so well placed to share and understand your journey of grief.
Those who are able to draw strength from a religious faith may be familiar with some words that have a very special resonance for the bereaved.
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born and a time to die;
A time to weep, and a time to mourn
And in your mourning, many of you may be wondering how on earth you’re going to make it through your first, (or in some cases) another Christmas without a loved one.
There are no simple answers to dealing with grief at Christmas, but we at Tobin Brothers do share with you some suggestions as to how you might choose to take care of yourself at what will be a time of great challenge and yet hopefully also love.
You are invited to attend a Service
Anyone bereaved is welcome to attend our Christmas Remembrance Services each year, whether the person has died this year or in years past, we have many people and families who return to these services for comfort.
There is no cost involved but to reserve a seat please register on our website where you will also find more information and the service dates and times.
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