Unique Funeral Personalisation Ideas
In this article we share unique funeral personalisation ideas for those who want to customise their service.
At Tobin Brothers, we strive to create a truly personal celebration of life, and our funeral planners will guide you every step of the way.
If you have something in mind that you can’t find on our website, or have something specific you would like to arrange, please contact our funeral advice line.
A funeral is a significant life event. The choices made at the time of arranging a funeral can help to truly celebrate the life of your loved one and create a lasting memory.
If you need help with funeral arrangements or funeral personalisation, speak to one of our Funeral Planners who will guide you through the process.
We offer a range of coffins and caskets, from solid timber through to environmentally friendly options. You can even design your own coffin through the Memory Maker app.
We have a range of cremation urns, scattering tubes, and keepsakes to suit any purpose or personality so that you have a tangible memorial to keep with you.
Publishing a tribute or funeral notice helps to inform others that someone has passed away and provides details about their upcoming service.
Browse a selection of our most popular arrangements or speak with our team to organise a floral tribute to honour your loved one at their service.
Our fleet of vehicles is modern, stylish, and reliable. Choose from state-of-the-art hearses, premium coaches, and even a Harley Davidson Fat Boy, depending on your needs.
Memorial Books help to celebrate the love of friends and family by prompting guests to share their memories and offer condolences and support.
Our Tributes Consultants help families remember their loved one with a moving montage of treasured photographic moments and videos to truly celebrate their life.
Webcasting allows loved ones who cannot attend the service in person to watch and pay their respects from the comfort of their own home.
Music is intrinsic to any celebration, and funerals are no exception. Our funeral planners can help you to choose the right music to set the tone.
Our various catering options offer a wide selection of delicious appetisers, fresh sandwiches and baked goods, hot and cold fare, sweet treats and share plates.
Our in-house Memories & Tributes team prepare and design a variety of personalised printed keepsakes to provide a lasting memory of your loved one.
There are many ways to add a personal touch to a service, and our Funeral Planners can help you to arrange something truly special that reflects the person you loved so dearly.
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A funeral serves as a way to honour and remember the life of the deceased. It provides a space for friends and family to grieve and find closure.
A funeral is not only a way to honour and remember the life of a loved one, but it also brings grieving family and friends together in support of one another at a critical time.
In Australia, there are various types of funeral services, including traditional burials, cremations, eco-friendly or green burials, and even virtual or online memorial services.
At Tobin Brothers, we are able to offer a range of service options, from the most traditional right through to the unconventional.
If it’s legally possible, we can organise it for you. It’s a good idea to start with the question of burial or cremation and go from there.
While it's not legally required, many people choose to hire a Funeral Director to help with the logistics and arrangements, as they are experienced in handling funeral proceedings.
When someone has died, a medical practitioner must certify the death by completing the medical certificate of cause of death.
When preparing for your first appointment with a funeral director, it’s best to bring any documentation regarding any pre-arranged or pre-paid funeral plans.
When someone has died it can be daunting to know where to begin, and each individual situation is different. If you have recently experienced a death please call our 24 hour Funeral Advice Line for assistance on 13 19 34.
Please Note:
A medical professional must provide a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death within 48 hours of someone dying. If the death is unexpected or an accident, you must notify the police who will report the death to the coroner.
Beyond the initial calls that need to be made, which we have outlined in our blog: Someone has died: The first 24 hours, we recommend you start with the following list:
If you need more information or assistance regarding who to notify in the event of a death, please call our 24 hour Funeral Advice Line on 13 19 34.
Meeting with the funeral director can usually take up to 1-2 hours, as you begin to plan the funeral together.
The funeral director will ask about your loved one, to get to know who they were and the relationship you have with them, and find out any individual preferences or cultural requirements they might have for their funeral.
To begin with, a date and time for the service is usually decided in your first meeting, along with the location.
If any funeral plans were made prior to their death, you should bring any documentation along with you to the meeting.
Although it is extremely helpful when a loved one has made their wishes known, for many families this isn’t the case, and you will need to give some thought first of all to whether you want burial or cremation.
Another element to consider is whether you would like to have a viewing to spend some time saying goodbye to your loved one in private, generally the day prior to the funeral.
It’s a good idea to consider the personalisation options for the ceremony itself, such as music, rituals, flowers, etc. Our Memory Maker app is completely free to download and designed to help families with the process of personalising a funeral. The funeral director will also run through costs with you in detail, and prepare an itemised estimate so you know what to expect from a financial standing.
Many families are surprised by the number of decisions and amount of detail which is required to arrange a funeral.
Our experienced Funeral Planners will guide and direct families throughout this process.
Some considerations are:
Remember, there are many types of funeral service, and you don’t have to do it in any particular way.
Our Funeral Planners can make arrangements as simple, or as extravagant, as you decide, and can adhere to any personal preferences or cultural customs you may have.
During a cremation service, the deceased is placed in a cremation chamber, and intense heat is applied until the body is reduced to ashes. The ashes are then typically placed in an urn.
A funeral is a formal ceremony to honour the deceased, while a wake is a more informal gathering where friends and family come together to share stories and memories.
A funeral tends to have a set structure, with formalities that might include religious rites, music, the reading of literary or religious passages, a eulogy, prayer, and hymns. It might take place in a church, chapel, or graveside, and usually includes a committal service where the deceased is buried or cremated.
In Australia, a wake is an informal gathering generally held after a funeral, but this varies among different cultures.
The wake might take the form of light refreshments at the same location as the funeral, at the family home, or at a club or organisation dear to the deceased.
Yes, there are plenty of ways to arrange a funeral that has minimal environmental impact.
Ask your Funeral Planner about sustainable products and practices we can incorporate into the service.
Yes, you can pre-plan your own funeral, which allows you to make decisions about your final arrangements and ease the burden on your loved ones when the time comes.
Call our Funeral Advice Line today to talk to a Funeral Specialist to pre plan a funeral. Call 13 19 34
There is no legal requirement to hold the funeral within a certain number of days of a death. It is always our advice to allow plenty of time. Many families put themselves under additional stress in an attempt to have the funeral as quickly as possible.
Unless timing is culturally significant to you or your loved one, it is best to take all the time you need and allow yourself to experience the process without rush or pressure.
We live in a multicultural society where some belief systems and traditions require that a funeral take place within forty-eight hours. However, generally speaking, the time and place of a funeral does not need to be decided immediately.
Sometimes people believe that the more quickly the funeral can be held then the more quickly life will return to normal.
In fact, taking time to consider the various options available, and to be sure that appropriate decisions are being made, can mean that the benefit of the funeral process is recognised and the healing processes can be assisted.
As each day passes we may feel a little more able to accept the different processes of adjustment to the loss.
Once the actual funeral process has commenced, a delay of a few days before the actual funeral may be helpful.
Many people are grateful to be able to take their time so that family and friends who need to can travel from interstate or overseas to attend the funeral.
In Australia the word coffin is normally used to describe a container for the deceased that is similar to body shape, that is, it is broader at the shoulders and narrower at the feet. Coffins normally have a removable lid and are made of wood.
The word casket usually describes a rectangular container with a hinged lid. Caskets may be made from wood or metal.
When someone has died it can be daunting to know where to begin, and each individual situation is different. If you have recently experienced a death please call our 24 hour Funeral Advice Line for assistance on (03) 9111 3289.
Please Note:
A medical professional must provide a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death within 48 hours of someone dying. If the death is unexpected or an accident, you must notify the police who will report the death to the coroner.
Beyond the initial calls that need to be made, which we have outlined in our blog: Someone has died: The first 24 hours, we recommend you start with the following list:
If you need more information or assistance regarding who to notify in the event of a death, please call our 24 hour Funeral Advice Line on (03) 9111 3289.
Meeting with the funeral director can usually take up to 1-2 hours, as you begin to plan the funeral together.
The funeral director will ask about your loved one, to get to know who they were and the relationship you have with them, and find out any individual preferences or cultural requirements they might have for their funeral.
To begin with, a date and time for the service is usually decided in your first meeting, along with the location.
If any funeral plans were made prior to their death, you should bring any documentation along with you to the meeting.
Although it is extremely helpful when a loved one has made their wishes known, for many families this isn’t the case, and you will need to give some thought first of all to whether you want burial or cremation.
Another element to consider is whether you would like to have a viewing to spend some time saying goodbye to your loved one in private, generally the day prior to the funeral.
It’s a good idea to consider the personalisation options for the ceremony itself, such as music, rituals, flowers, etc. Our Memory Maker app is completely free to download and designed to help families with the process of personalising a funeral. The funeral director will also run through costs with you in detail, and prepare an itemised estimate so you know what to expect from a financial standing.
Many families are surprised by the number of decisions and amount of detail which is required to arrange a funeral.
Our experienced Funeral Planners will guide and direct families throughout this process.
Some considerations are:
Remember, there are many types of funeral service, and you don’t have to do it in any particular way.
Our Funeral Planners can make arrangements as simple, or as extravagant, as you decide, and can adhere to any personal preferences or cultural customs you may have.
There are many ways you can personalise a funeral service with Tobin Brothers.
We have arranged all sorts of funerals, from the most traditional service, right through to the most unique.
In fact, as far as personalisation goes, if it’s legally possible, we can organise it for you.
You can personalise a funeral by incorporating elements such as:
And much more.
Have a chat with our funeral planners by calling our Funeral Advice Line or head over to our Personalisation page to find out more.
We live in a multicultural society where some belief systems and traditions require that a funeral take place within forty-eight hours. However, generally speaking, the time and place of a funeral does not need to be decided immediately.
Sometimes people believe that the more quickly the funeral can be held then the more quickly life will return to normal.
In fact, taking time to consider the various options available, and to be sure that appropriate decisions are being made, can mean that the benefit of the funeral process is recognised and the healing processes can be assisted.
As each day passes we may feel a little more able to accept the different processes of adjustment to the loss.
Once the actual funeral process has commenced, a delay of a few days before the actual funeral may be helpful.
Many people are grateful to be able to take their time so that family and friends who need to can travel from interstate or overseas to attend the funeral.
In this article we share unique funeral personalisation ideas for those who want to customise their service.
Personalisation is an important aspect of the funeral service, allowing families to celebrate the life of the their loved one.
The choice between cremation or burial is a deeply personal one. We explain the pros and cons of each to help you in your decision.
While it can be one of the hardest experiences we go through in life, the process of personalising a funeral can help us to celebrate the person we love and to honour and remember them for who they were as a person and what they meant to us. While some people prefer a more traditional funeral, others are celebrated in their own truly unique way to suit their personality.
At Tobin Brothers, you are only limited by the law and your imagination, so speak to our funeral directors today to arrange something special. If it’s legal, it’s possible.
Call our 24 Hour funeral Advice Line today.
If it’s legal, it’s possible. Let us help you create a service that truly reflects and celebrates the life of your loved one.
The first funeral conducted by Tobin Brothers Funerals was for Ena Margaret Price in 1934. In its first year, the company conducted 53 funerals and after the payment of creditors and the collection of debts, it made a modest profit.